11 Ways To Feel Happier Today


Think about it ... every single thing we do is intended to make us happier.


And yet sometimes we get diverted and do things that actually move us away from this goal.


We all have the potential for genuine happiness. There is no gene or DNA marker that determines who will be happy and who will not. We make choices throughout our lives, and the result of all these choices combined, determines our level of happiness. Make the right choices and happiness can be yours.


Here are just a sampling of some of the tactics we can employ in an 11-point roadmap to help guide us toward genuine happiness:


Look For The Positive In Everything

There is an old saying that nothing is inherently good or badówhat makes it one or the other, is merely your reaction to it. Find the positive and you will be happier. Those who soar against all odds, do so because they look at the positive that could come out of their situation, how ever bad it may seem to others.


Accentuate The Positive

We all grow up with a ìpositivity imbalanceîóthe result of societyís norms and rules being based on restriction and punishment more than approval and reward. From a young age we are taught what we must not do instead of what we may do. Even in day-to-day life, there is more negative influence that positive. Luckily you can work to improve the balance. Celebrate the positive and work to get more of it. When you achieve something, congratulate yourself! Look for things you find uplifting, that make you happy. Get more of that! At the same time, reduce your exposure to negative input, whether it is the daily news, or people you donít feel good around. You know your buttonsÖmake sure the positive ones are pushed more than the negative.


Practice Good Selfishness

When we were young we were taught that putting our interests before those of others is wrong. This is particularly true for women, many of whom sacrifice their dreams and ambitions to help others achieve theirs. It is also common in the corporate world where the good of the company is considered more important than the good of the individual. It is good to help others, yet we should have boundaries to protect ourselves from being manipulated or abused by others. You are important, and if you donít look after yourself physically, emotionally and spiritually, you cannot expect anyone else to do so.