You Can Do It




I've been coaching for ten years now. I've sat with many people who have set BIG goals for themselves and watched them either accomplish them (or not). The biggest difference between the ones who succeed and the ones that don't are in the words: can and can't. Sometimes it is outside sources but most times it happens subconsciously.


These two words are the most powerful words that you can and will ever speak to yourself about any situation - "CAN" and "CAN'T" As I've said many times, "CAN" is a word of power; whereas, "CAN'T" is a word of retreat.


"CAN" and "CAN'T are the most powerful words that you can and will ever speak to yourself about any situation.


You have the power to decide if you wish to ACHIEVE or RETREAT, because when you speak victory words such as "I CAN", you will attain whatever you set out to do regardless of what others are saying to you.


The way you talk to yourself and the thoughts you have are the driving force behind you achieving your goals. This is why I LOVE reprograming my brain with daily personal development. Whenever negativity creeps in, I crowd it out with positivity (usually in the form of an audiobook). I talk more about this in my upcoming book, The Elevation of the Femalepreneur (due to be released this spring)


There are many famous entrepreneurs in the world such as Ray Kroc, Fred Astaire, Walt Disney, and Dick Clark. I can attest to the fact that if you spoke with each of them individually, they would tell you that at the beginning of their journey the majority of people told them ----you CAN'T do that! Fortunately, they disregarded these statements and listened to their inner voice, who said, "Oh yes I CAN!"


The key is to realize the most important person who speaks to you every day is you on the inside!


Review your WHY in Life and see if you are on track toward achieving your goal, or are you on a detour because someone told you, "You CAN'T do that so stop dreaming and just forget about it!"


Each morning, I visualize myself winning. My personal goal for each day is to build a community of people goal-getters who inspire and motivate all of us to make the world a better place in which to live.


I have to admit if it was not for my inner voice saying, "Charity, you CAN do it! YOU CAN do it!" I may not be in the position of success that I am today. Some days it is still difficult, but guess what -- I am doing it one day at a time.


Ask yourself a very honest question, "Am I listening to my victory words from the inside or am letting the outer defeat (loser) words control my outcome in life?".

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